Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying is when a minor (child, teen or preteen) uses the Internet, cell phones, or other digital media devices to harm another child. It is only considered bullying when minors are involved on both sides, the bully and the one being bullied. Children sometimes do things that they think are fun and consider it to be playing or a joke, not realizing that they are actually causing harm to another individual. It is essential that these types of things are explained to our children, especially when they have such free access to so much technology.

I often express to the minors that I mentor that they should be aware of their actions towards others and in public. What may seem insignificant to them, such as a negative comment made as a joke, may be taken out of context by someone who overhears or reads the message (text/email) sent. Once a text, instant message or email is sent, it cannot be taken back. Although they may have sent it to one person does not mean that the person it was sent to will not forward it on to others for their review. With a few keystrokes, what was meant for one person is now seen by anyone they choose to send the message to. With so many phones having features that allow one to record audio and video, anyone can record the actions of others at anytime without their knowledge. Embarrassing moments are posted to websites in a matter of minutes. Some phones allow posts directly to websites such as Facebook, Utube, Twitter and others. The best way to prevent cyberbullying is to talk to minors about the serious effects that it can have on them and the other individual.

To learn more about cyberbullying, visit:
www.stopcyberbullying.org
www.stopybullyingnow.hrsa.gov
www.wiredsafety.org
http://kids.getnetwise.org